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Since the parents of their children entrusted to the school, the school naturally has the responsibility to train children, small make up to cultivate students not only to teach them knowledge, but also to cultivate their psychological quality, then this psychological quality how to cultivate it? A constant give a few suggestions.
1. Help students overcome fear. Fear is the student's growth and development of a past phenomenon, such as: afraid to answer questions, afraid of Table Wei, afraid to show themselves, afraid of exams and so on, teachers should be patient to guide, otherwise, students will become a timid, cautious, accomplished people. Teachers can analyze education in the light of the causes of fear in children. For example: Afraid to answer the question of the classmate, the teacher can tell him more answer questions, answer the number of questions, he felt accustomed to, there will be no fear of the heart. Afraid of the table Wei, afraid to show the students, the teacher can tell him, other students performance and he is similar, but the performance of the number of times more, more skilled, the feeling is better than he, if he efforts, will also perform very good, this is to give him self-confidence. There is nothing terrible in the examination, it is only to detect our usual learning situation of a form, as usual do homework, do not worry about what, test good or bad, as long as you have tried, teachers and parents will not blame you, students will understand you.
2. Cultivate students ' sense of success. The individual differences between students are very large. In his young mind, the thing that likes to do, often have a strong taste and narcissism, Hin Lang, when he himself into a matter, in the eyes of our teachers and adults may not be worth mentioning, but in the eyes of students may be happy if they are crazy, dancing, may feel that they are great, very great, perhaps very much hope that teachers and adults praise and encouragement. If our teachers and adults pay for them, it is a careless attitude, even to let them be reprimanded and snubbed, so that, will greatly dampen the enthusiasm of students, hurt their self-esteem, over time, will make them lose their ability to feel and expression of desire, do anything will become timid, loss of confidence, and even the development of character has a very bad influence. Make them solitary, melancholy, stiff and suspicious.
As a teacher, should be happy to enjoy the success of students. Students have achieved and progressed, even if it is written a words, draw a good format, or pick up a piece of waste paper and other things, teachers should be properly praised and encouraged, so that their confidence enough, in good mood, will be happy to accept the higher requirements of the teacher. When a student has a strong interest in something, his interest will lead him to seek, discover, delve into, and when the teacher sees these advantages of the students, he should give help and support in time.
3. Correct students ' jealousy. Jealousy is the result of comparing yourself with others and feeling that you are not as good as others. When this kind of emotion is serious, will form a kind of extreme want to exclude others superior status, or want to destroy other people's superior state of hatred. The negative effect of jealousy is very big, it can make people narrow-minded, tolerate others more than themselves, selfish and lack of concern for other people's feelings. This will not only affect unity, but also isolate themselves, more detrimental to their healthy growth.
4. Cultivate students ' "magnanimous" from childhood. Teachers should help students overcome the problem of small gas. Because the student life experience shallow, the level of knowledge is limited, so the ability to analyze problems is poor, teachers should patiently give them the right and wrong standards, in order to improve their ability to distinguish between right and wrong, understand which is correct, which is a mistake, distinguish what is big, what is trivial, and can extricate itself. In addition, students often see their own advantages, see other people's shortcomings, even with their own advantages and other people's shortcomings to compare. Therefore, the teacher also through specific cases to educate them 11 self-discipline, others ' this, students will gradually open-minded, open-minded optimistic. It has been proved that the chicken intestines of the people are often trouble-seeking, a small matter on the 11 horn ", to others is not happy."
5. Overcome the inferiority complex and cultivate self-confidence. Psychologists believe that a student who thinks he is not as good as others, they always talk to others about their "How not" this will make the general remorse into a "self-failure" mentality, will seriously suppress the People's initiative and creativity. In addition, in daily life, they are often criticized by parents and teachers, the classmate's "supercilious", so that they have to meet each of the first reaction always feel that they "dare" or "not", so become very timid, which is the cause of students ' inferiority and lack of self-confidence. To cultivate students ' self-confidence, the important thing is to "liberate" them, encourage them to think boldly, to say, to do, to let them through the ability to do something, even through the efforts can do, gradually make them "I do", "I can do" psychological consciousness. The other is that timid students should be encouraged to criticize less. Marie Curie, a famous scientist, has set an example for us in cultivating students ' self-confidence. She did not encourage her students to do acrobatic adventures, and disliked their imprudence and recklessness, but asked them to be bold. Boldness itself shows confidence. When she went to Sweden for the Nobel Prize in Chemistry in 1911, she took her eldest daughter, Irene, to the serious rally, which enabled her to strengthen her confidence and consciousness of success. 24 years later, Irene finally also accepted this award here, it is not difficult to see that the confidence and wisdom of the mother is the daughter of the foundation for this great success.
Summary: To cultivate students ' good psychological quality is an essential condition in education under the new idea, it can make our education have the effect of "multiplier"; it can make the students ' life more colorful.
